Friday, July 30, 2010

Can You Have a Second Chance at Love?

Let me pose a question ...
Do you feel that you have already had your "chance" at love and that it is not in the cards for you to experience it again?

Feeling that way may be a natural tendency for widows and widowers; however, reconciling that thought is also part of the process of readjusting the picture of your late spouse, which includes letting go of the preconceived notion (and associated guilt) that there is only one possible romantic partner for each of us.

To feel you will never have another opportunity to be in love again is simply your ego putting limitations on what you can want and have. Remember, the world is a giant mirror and whatever thoughts you project will be reflected back to you. You can have it all in life -- if that's what you want and project out. It's all up to you!

Self-reflection is a very necessary step that helps you to figure out what it is you truly want. Your words may say one thing, but your actions another. For example, you may think you want a romantic relationship, but you allow no one to break through the barriers you have erected around your heart. Make sure to clearly examine your thoughts and actions in order to understand yourself. This will illuminate any denial you may have of your innermost desires.

To be continued ....

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